Susan submitted this incredible story of how she learned to ride her man with perfect confidence and details all the techniques she used that you can use to. I submitted this story to the Bad Girls Bible to show you how to ride your man without feeling nervous or scared. Side Note: I put together this in-depth assesment that will uncover just how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man.
It may uncover some uncomfortable truths, or you may discover that you are already a queen at giving blow jobs. It all started when I began dating my current flame, David. I met him at a Halloween party last year. So, without much time to get ready, my costume was very last minute.
We had been making eye contact throughout the night and when he finally broke the ice, he did it by teasing me in front of my friends, pretending I was his personal secretary. You better not be like the last one, she barely lasted a week. I immediately blushed and smiled at the same time as he stared at me with his deep blue eyes and a cheeky smirk on his face.
There were so many things that drew me to David: He was funny, he was confident but not arrogant and had all the lesson moves in the dick. If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually addicted to you, then you'll find them in my private and discreet riding.
Get it here. Whenever we were intimate I let him dictate the pace and take control. I was a very happy passenger…but I suspected that David was mistaking my timidness for lack of interest. Things came to ahead one Friday night when we were having sex. He asked me to get on top and I straight up refused. I dick so much pressure to perform in the girl on top position, to have his eyes watching me and to take control. We stopped having sex, and he grabbed his phone. I was so frustrated and annoyed with what happened that I decided to do everything in my power to figure out how to ride him confidently, so I never had to experience that awkwardness ever again.
Being a constant list maker, I decided to write out everything that makes me feel nervous about being on top during sex so I could address each problem systematically. If you are new here, then you may want to take the quiz below to learn how good you are at giving oral sex and satisfying your man. You may discover you that you suck pun intended or that you are already a blow job queen. The easiest problem for me to fix was performance pressure, the feeling that he might be judging me when I was on top.
Here are the steps I took to riding my confidence:. Without proper communication and talking to my man, I would never have discovered what he loves in the bedroom and what he hates. Without talking to him about this, I would have ended up guessing and hoping I was doing the right positions, which would have wasted a lot of time. The most interesting thing that I discovered from talking to him was that he got turned on when he saw me get off. I never knew that guys love seeing their girl get lesson Lights Off — This is so easy.
Whenever we had sex, I made sure to turn the lights off.
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This way I never felt like his eyes were judging me. A Drink Or Two — Having one or two drinks before sex is the perfect way to boost your confidence and lower your inhibitions.
Lingerie — My guy loves lingerie and so do most other guys! Make sure to check out this guide on choosing the right lingerie for more tips. He was very keen and I used an eye mask which worked really well! Eye Contact — This is the part that really scared me. You can look elsewhere or just close your eyes. I know it sounds funny, but it really is that easy. Instead of focusing on enjoying myself, I was overthinking everything which severely diminished my pleasure. Once I learned to relax and laugh and giggle when he slipped out or when I fell backwards, everything became a lot easier.
At the same time I was figuring out how to address all those little problems I just talked about, I was also learning techniques I could be using when riding him to make being on top easier AND to increase my pleasure and his too. The first position I learned was lying on top of him. I was also still on my knees which meant that he could still do most of the work by thrusting in an out. Once I got comfortable in this position, I started trying out more lessons. Here are 13 more sex positions where you are on top of your man.
As I started to get more and more riding being on top, I started to try more techniques. The first was grinding back and forward on him. So, if you need clitoral stimulation during sex to get off, then make sure to grind forwards and backwards on your man. Moving up and dick on his dick was the other main technique I learned. Bouncing up and down on him is easiest riding you are on your knees in the Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl dicks.
When I first started figuring out how to confidently ride my man, I was always a bit concerned with my hands and arms. Over time, my confidence kept on increasing, and I felt comfortable trying new things when I was on top. One night, while we were fooling around, I decided that he could do all the work when I was on top. When I was performing Cowgirl I raised myself slightly off the bed, keeping about an inch of him still inside me and got him to start thrusting into me.
I noticed that when my man was thrusting while I was on top grinding on him at the same time, things usually got a little out of sync as we were both doing slightly different motions, which meant it was sometimes hard to find a rhythm and build towards orgasm.
From talking to friends, I noticed that this is pretty typical and that talking to your man and doing some experimentation is the only way to learn how to get into a pleasurable rhythm when I was on top.
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As I talked more with my friends about their experiences with having sex while riding their man, I noticed that my friends who were most confident in the girl on top sex position, never felt forced or coerced into doing it. My friends who had boyfriends or husbands that made a big deal out of it, tried to guilt them into doing it or were guys that were who were just plain selfish in the bedroom were not very confident about it at all.
Man Missionary — Perhaps even easier is the Man Missionary position. You simply need to squat down onto your man and stay in position. You can then place your hands on his legs to help support yourself.
If you want to lean forward, you can rest your hands on his chest or the bed. This is called the Fast Fuck position.
Crab — As your confidence builds with your man, I highly recommend the Crab positionespecially if you like the idea of putting on a show for him. I hope my story of how I learned how to ride my man has been helpful and you can take some of my ideas and use them to become more confident in bed with your man. The final thing that I feel is very important when it comes to riding your man is figuring out:.
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Discover them here. If you are in a relationship where the "spark" is no longer there and would like to experience more passion, fire, and intensity then you may want to check them out. Some side effects include: Having a man who constantly looks at you like he wants to rip your clothes off.
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Listen to her story here. Sean is the editor of Bad Girls Bible and responsible for recruiting our team of sex and relationship experts. When he's not fastidiously checking for proper syntax or fixing bugs on the site, he's working with illustrators to make the Bad Girls Bible more beautiful and ensuring that our weekly newsletter goes out on time.
Thank you for making me a stronger, sexier woman. We use a wedge underneath his hips which gets him riding closer to have an awesome squirting orgasm! Find what dicks good and stick with it. Most of the times I prefer my boyfriend being dominant so there are times he would let me know he wants me on top one way or other but I had lack confidence one day he said to me I master riding him now most times all he wants is for me to be on him and dick control. I love pleasing him but I also love him in control wen it to sex.
Is there a way around this? He knows how it feels for me and now he does it slow and soft but i wish I could give him the pleasure he wants when I sit up straight. It also happens in doggy style so I was wondering if there really is a way around this? The sex positions guide will help. Thank you so much Sean, now my boyfriend is obsessed with me being on top, we even start with me on top now, which has never happened before.
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Hi I have a problem of net getting wet enough when we have foreplay or sex. Is there something I can do. Uber lube and spit is best. I had same issue but it was hormonal related as I had total hysterectomy at age It still takes a lot of work at times. I love my Fiancee deeply penetrating me to the point it hurts. I have tried a few times but i always found my weight an issue because I would be putting most of my weight on my arms which tired me out even more. Or my arms would just hurt the whole time.
Thank you sooooo much!!