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Platinum Author Articles. The enslaved husband is, for men and women who adopt that lifestyle, one of the most profound relationships a couple can aspire to. What it means, in short, is the husband offers complete submission of his will to his wife's. And, crucially, this always has a deeply sexual element to it. It's important to realise this because many men, out of nervousness or embarrassment, will find it difficult, if not impossible, to articulate this need. What it typically boils down to, in my experience, is really men wanting to surrender their right to orgasm to their wife -- in the hope she'll actually withhold it from them for some considerable time often, this means forever.

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She opened it to find a group of hatted English matrons in their fifties who quietly but earnestly asked her to leave the country. Miss Vilar, who is 36 years old and divorced, said she does not think things are fine the way they are.

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She points the finger of blame at women—ticking off as faults she finds: laziness, selfishness, stupidity, inability to feel. The crux of the situation as Miss Viler sees it is that men are slaves to women, working all their lives to support women, while women choose a life of domestic idleness, working either intermittently or not at all.

Men work because it's their responsibility to support a family. His Scale of Values. But, according to Miss Viler, if women are guilty, it is because men let them be. A woman is a man's scale of values, but if he doesn't have a woman to manipulate him, he will find another system.

She speaks fluent English. In she went to West Germany on scholarship to continue her studies in psychology and sociology and worked for a year as a doctor in a Bavarian hospital.

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Nevertheless, she has taken on the most militant women's liberationists, the most complacent housewives, and the most defiant male chauvinists. They love to hear that they are tyrants because they are educated that way. Nor is she particularly sympathetic to the woman who does manage to work and raise her children at the same time.

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I meant it to be. Otherwise nobody would have listened. I'm not interested in revolution. I don't want to change all the rules; people must find their own solutions.

I just wanted to bring it to consciousness that it is men who are enslaved—not women. See the article in its original context from June 13,50 Buy Reprints. View on timesmachine.

TimesMachine is an exclusive benefit for home delivery and digital subscribers. To preserve these articles as they originally appeared, The Times does not alter, edit or update them. Occasionally the digitization process introduces transcription errors or other problems; we are continuing to work to improve these archived versions. His Scale of Values But, according to Miss Viler, if women are guilty, it is because men let them be.