I lost my virginity to a prostitute

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I spent a weekend in Vegas alone. She asked where I was going and we negotiated price. I was pretty worried she was a cop but was drunk enough to think fuck it whatever. We got to my room and talked for awhile. Then we got to it. It was awesome.

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He insisted a condom was used, but I insisted he was tested for STIs, which he agreed to at the time. During the following days he was passive about this, then annoyed and quite rude, which made it seem like a false promise.

“i lost my virginity to a prostitute”

I then found a service where tests can be ordered online, so we have both been tested and await. I feel confused and sad that he could treat a woman this way. The thought of him with a sex worker is repulsive to me.

That, together with having to take an STI test, makes me feel very turned off from sex and intimacy. Hopefully it will simply be a precautionary measure as, apart from a couple of less likely conditions, seven years would be an extremely long time for an entirely symptomless incubation. Our post-Freudian society is all about expressing our darkest fears, but sometimes leaving territory undisturbed works equally well.

I know only too well how hard it is when you are young and your emotions override your ability for rational thought to put sensible distance between the present and the past.

My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker, then lied about it

We are all flawed creatures leading the best lives we can, often against considerable odds. Or revealed it with no sense of shame over an early dinner date?

I understand your sadness that he could treat a woman in this way, but he was an isolated teenager under pressure from a peer. In youth we leap far too easily to judgment and live in a world where shades of any hue are rarely tolerated.

11 people who lost their virginity to a prostitute reveal what exactly happened

If your relationship is founded on such a tenuous connection that a historical sexual encounter, apparently made under duress and regretted ever since, is reason to call off the affair, then perhaps the take-away from this is that your roots are too unstable to endure. If you have a dilemma, send a brief to mariella.

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My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker, then lied about it. Photograph: Alamy.

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